Trust is important but sometimes ignorance is bliss
Sorry my friend i tend to differ on your theory of not to hide anything from your spouse...I know hearing something from a third person can be devastating to any spouse when the one he loves and respects has not confided in him but an husband wife relationship is a very sensive one and is like treading on glass shreds....Especially pre marital things are better left alone and not to be discussed with ur spouse..let bygones be bygones..PAst is past...concentrate on the present and plan for the future...
Cos human beings are made of certain complexities and a man is filled with a ego which hurts when spouses spill beans of previous relationships...or it can suffix to say one was involved previously without going into the gory details...similary some facts about relatives of one another or parents etc cannot be shared...Diplomacy is also the key to an happy marraige...so sharing every minute detail to gain trust is definitely not everyones cup of tea..hope you agree with me
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