Its very easy to make a relationship but very difficult to maintain it

[ammu]

Restoring , Saving , Rejenuvating relationship is a very hard task cos the broken pieces to be mended is one helluva difficult task especially in the complex relationship of husband-wife..One has to tread very very softly and not venture into the topics which had created problems before...

For Restoring , Saving and Rejenuvating relationship the first step is to wipe out the slate and start afresh and not let the old bitterness come in the way and only then it can be a success...Also the two people involved should be ready for the same..No amt of assurance or advice from third person helps in this regard...Mutual friends of both the parties would be god send and they can have a big hand in uniting both of them as they know the positive and negative aspects of both and can overcome them....

All said and done this is a task which is easier said than done as only the 2 individuals who are trying to restore and save the relationship know what they are undergoing...and though i would like to be optimistic have to agree that the percentage of working out or saving and restoring a relationship is very low....as human minds and hearts once hurt is definitely shy of being hurt again and the wariness and suspicioun kills the relationship instead of saving it..NEvertheless would like to conclude where there is a will there is a way..AMEN!!!